Posted by antigua on October 15, 2004, at 15:38:07
In reply to Quit therapy, for good,Cant take it anymore (long), posted by shrinking violet on October 14, 2004, at 19:04:53
IMO, it sounds like either your perception of her behavior might be off--but it sounds like you have a pretty good handle on her--or she is struggling with how to treat you and is blaming you because her techniques aren't working.
I would be very upset if my T were negative toward me; I'd probably crumble. Mine has a way of getting her point across w/o putting me down.
Maybe you've just been testing her to see if you can trust her, but she doesn't seem to be able to handle it, or... she is too vocal w/the trouble she is having w/you. She can't tell you how to be a better patient, you are just who you are and you deserve to work w/someone who is willing to work your way and not hers. Too harsh? Sorry if so.
This really sounds like her issue.
best,
antigua
poster:antigua
thread:403120
URL: http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/psycho/20041002/msgs/403462.html