Posted by lynn971 on December 30, 2005, at 21:53:07
In reply to What to do about my parents..., posted by med_empowered on October 21, 2005, at 11:52:33
Med,
I answered your post about Christmas Eve before I read this post. I am glad that I put on there that you have a lot of wisdom.
Dont let anyone crush your dream. You can and will succeed in college. I am apalled at the fact that someone would tell you that you cant make it. I am so angry. Hold your head up high. Dont let anyone bring you down. You have made a difference in my life. When I post on the med board, I always hope that you answer.
You are a great person. Do not let anyone convince you otherwise.
I also cant believe they would tell you that you are fat. OMG out of everything in the horrible world to worry about, they are going to say that you are fat. Oh I am angry. They obviousely do not realize how great of a person you are. They say your close look funny!!
I will have to stop, because I dont want to help you get any angrier than you might already be.
I had to forgive my mom for a lifetime of verbal and physical abuse.
When I chose to forgive her, the healing began. Bitterness and unforgiveness will hold you back. Even if your parents are not to cool, try to forgive for your own sake. I had to forgive my dad too. He did not do the abusing, but he did not stop it either. I think I had a harder time forgiving him. Well, I guess I will stop ranting now. I hope I helped.Your friend,
Lynn
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