Posted by judy1 on February 9, 2004, at 12:29:39
In reply to Marital Milestone, posted by Racer on February 8, 2004, at 20:33:08
That's a huge leap for someone who is terrified by the consequences of expressing anger to risk that with a loved one. You must be getting very healthy emotionally to do that. As far as 'fighting' with your spouse, that's a learned art- most people do get defensive when they are attacked verbally. My husband and I spent a lot of time in couples therapy learning the 'correct' way to argue, it helped us both tremendously.
take care, judy
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