Posted by Partlycloudy on March 7, 2014, at 10:22:06
In reply to Re: Nope., posted by Ronnjee on March 7, 2014, at 8:56:17
What the talks of separation (we can't afford it) and the in-place result of it (how much he is suffering emotionally) closely mirror the divorce issues so far.
Divorce would be best for my health. My current source of income is disability support. So, practically I would need and would be entitled to alimony and half the assets. At this point, any talk of love and commitment has gone out the window. The claws are unsheathed, and it becomes how I am Out To Get Him.
In my mind, he is talking out of both sides of his mouth. If he loved me, he would do what he could to help my mental health, which has been proposed to be a full divorce. He sees it as an attack on his financial resources, and there is no love. Has there ever been any love? I haven't experienced any emotional support since we were first married, and I drank heavily to self medicate. I guess it was easier for him then?
It is all messed up. I slept really well in my own room. Woke up with my cat nestled at my feet. He did not sleep well at all.
There is a lot going on here.
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