Posted by Deneb on July 3, 2010, at 1:32:10
In reply to I don't want to carry on esp. this way warn. SI, posted by Jay_Bravest_Face on July 3, 2010, at 0:24:55
Jay, I don't have much experience dating and what not, but I do know one thing...people are attracted to happy confident people. If you are not happy alone, you are not likely to attract a partner.
Just be cool with being alone. People pick up on desperation and some will take advantage of you as you've learned.
Try not to spend money to please others. Instead, do things that are free with them. That way you weed out the people who only want your money.
If they really love you, they just want to spend time with you.
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