Posted by rskontos on November 19, 2007, at 15:53:09
In reply to Re: How Do We Live Without Love? » Fivefires, posted by ClearSkies on November 19, 2007, at 15:25:37
5F, I am not sure you can mend it. YOu can't stop the loving because loves grows where it grows. You will have to learn to live with I think. I too have a sister that moved without telling me where. I only know by chance not because she told me. She cut me out of her life for reasons only known to her. That is her choice one I must live with so I do. I can only put my feelings aside for now. It is all I have to do.
You must put your love for them aside symbolically. You can't change it but you have to learn to live with the choices they made. You cannot change the events that led them to this decision nor can you make yourself feel bad for what happened. Sometimes life get messy and there is no one to blame it just is. Like Clear Skies you can't heal them only yourself. The fact you still love them is positive. You have not become bitter or upset is good. So go on loving them and you will find some one else to love that is nearby and wants to return it. I feel that will happen because you have been through some bad times and emerged with love intact and that is saying alot. Give yourself credit for that. You are strong and someone else soon will see all your wonderful strengths and beauty and value it. Give it time. rk
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