Posted by Clockwork Ange on January 21, 2007, at 15:38:34
In reply to Re: a friend that makes it impossible... some adiv, posted by notfred on January 21, 2007, at 12:53:51
> "and that she's too poor and that she doesn't have a seperate bedroom and they would never let her adopt because of it..."
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> Sounds to me like this lady does not have the resourses to have a childIn my opinion, she doesn't have the resources, nor the attitude... which makes it even more a mess... they barely have enough room and time for the son that they do have.
Ugh
And when one of the "moms" brought that up to her, she flew off the handle with something like "They could share a room and money doesn't make you a good parent"
which, can be true, but in her case, it isn't... they struggle to buy enough food and for heat- providing food and heat IS a good parent...
ugh ugh ugh
it's the impossible relationship
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