Posted by one woman cine on January 11, 2007, at 18:59:53
In reply to Re: Deneb » one woman cine, posted by Deneb on January 11, 2007, at 18:50:33
"How do I change the equation?
I'm guessing I shouldn't post about ODing and I definitely shouldn't post that I've already OD'd.
Why? Because it's best for the group not to know these things. It only upsets people. I have to learn to hold things in and suffer in silence like other people here. "
Deneb,
Changing the equation means changing the behavior. Tangentially, it means yes, posting about self-harm for attention is not a postive way to go about trying to soothe yourself.However, it does mean, concretely, as I said before - that changing the equation means finding another way to cope other than OD'ing. Posting and the internet are fine - but what you do in real time, in real time is what is at issue.
I am feeling provoked by you - you are repeating that a you have to suffer in silence for the good of the group. I am saying you do not need to suffer - do not OD. Do not self harm for attention.
Do you understand this - do you understand the difference?
poster:one woman cine
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