Posted by Farkus on December 13, 2006, at 7:18:42
In reply to I did something bad *trigger*, posted by Deneb on December 12, 2006, at 18:51:36
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> I'm manipulative. >**IF** you are using threats to your life and wellbeing as a coping and controlling mechanism, the fact you recognize that is good. Insight needs to expand to the whys of the behaviors. Initally, the answer may seem simple because people tend to do things that work for them and get them the goals they desire. Desperate people do desperate things. On deeper looking, the reasons may not be so simple.
I am sorry you are hurting. I hope you seek the help I think you need as I believe the behaviors in which you are engaging are risky and very dangerous.
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