Posted by corafree on November 7, 2006, at 21:29:51
In reply to Re: I woke up sad » SatinDoll, posted by TexasChic on November 7, 2006, at 11:35:54
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> I think the reason all this keeps sticking with me is he made it sound like I have been behaving like an inmature little girl (when here I thought I was confiding in him). So its not only the fact that it bothers me to know someone thinks of me that way, but I also have to wonder if its true! I know I am socially behind when it comes to guys and dating. So now I feel like I've made a complete fool out of myself. And I can't help but wonder if he shared any of this with cuteboy. How do I stop these things from going round and round in my head?
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Becuz' you're worried about not only 'cuteboy', but 'friend' and it sounds like 'maybe others'(?), you're prob' right about this OSP (Was that it.. Overly? Or was it Very Sensitive People; I'll have to read about it.) I'm very sensitive, most especially when it comes to relationships with men. I can read things into a body movement! And, then I'm convinced I'm right ... really. Big time sensitive!I hang on and hang on long after should have let go, hate being left by one and also hate leaving one (Want them to stay 'my friend'; yeah right!).
There's a good book that might help you through this if you can make yourself read it. It's only about a half inch paperback called **Telling Yourself the Truth** by William Backus, Marie Chapian.
Oh yeah ... I've been there. I wish I'd had here. I'm hurting over 'icecreamman' being gone, but I'd been preparing myself for quite a while. I'll prob' really lose it in a week or so when I can really feel that he's not coming back. Might need to read my book again!
I hadn't read about your guy until this thread. Sorry.
When what's happened to you, happens to me, I cry and cry, take breaks to hide-out, and create a real dramarama for anyone near me. My fam' got used to it. I swear ... something used to go wrong @ home w/ my whole fam' of origin, and they'd wait for 'ME TO REACT' and 'CREATE AN EITHER EXCITED OR ARGUMENTATIVE APPROACH', and then instead of them dealing w/ it themselves, they could put it aside and jump all over me. Weird?!
It's late ... your prob' in bed.
Hang on hon'. It's okay to feel terribly sad. He's hurt you horribly. I'd like tah ... a;gioa b[a90truqNF BMOAP[GHE MQOEHDfubb ... him! (Can't put it into real words!)
Think 'bout book.
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