Posted by zenhussy on September 14, 2006, at 11:35:14
In reply to Re: What .. when you want to post a flame? :( TRIGGER » rainbutterfly, posted by ClearSkies on September 14, 2006, at 9:07:58
>>> ...my immediate reaction is to "strike back". This has always, always, struck ME and not the target I had in mind. A hard lesson for me and one I spent a lot of time being resentful over.
>>>Sometimes I'll just sit on my hands and not try to type at all.that is a hard lesson and one that some folks learn the hard way a few times before it sticks. thank you for sharing that as it is illustrative of how acting on feelings/emotions in the moment may not always be the best course of action in the long run.
yeah that certainly is one that takes time and much frustration for most. glad you've found a more middle path through CS.
sounds like your year sober and your meditation practice are helping....yoga too, right? excellent. most excellent to read. :)
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