Posted by LegWarmers on April 4, 2006, at 19:11:17
In reply to Re: I wonder why Dr. Bob won't accept my scarf, posted by zazenduck on April 4, 2006, at 18:33:33
> It almost seems like he wants to continue to engage with you about this. Wouldn't it have been simpler to take the gift say thank you and not make an issue about it? (Oh and don't forget to send a thank you note)
I can't recall how long ago it was, but Dr. Bob was very clear when he answered Deneb back then in saying he didn't want a gift. Maybe its just me, but he is being very clear to me.>
> Dr Bob doesn't always see social norms the way others do....it's just part of being Dr Bob.yes, there are definatly things I don't agree with!
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> Refusing to accept it just makes it into a bigger deal and continues the dialogue with all this wondering why! I can see a therapist reacting in this way but a forum owner??I completely understnad why, when she asked the question I thought there is not a chance he will accept this.
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> I like you Deneb. I admire your spirit. PLEASE don't let this upset you and get yourself blocked or ruin your trip to Toronto,ok?I agree, Im sure you will have a great time whether you give it or not.
Just had to add my 1 cent worth
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