Posted by LegWarmers on March 7, 2006, at 19:01:30
In reply to Re: How it went, posted by Deneb on March 7, 2006, at 17:15:31
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> The meeting itself wasn't so bad. I was pretty composed and confident even though I made a fool of myself.so? why are you beating yourself up?
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> I can't even order coffee right. Please, someone for the BabbleParty, order my food for me.How do you mean you can't order a coffee? there is nothing wrong with ordering wrong, or mixing up your order, or even spilling your order on the guy who you met for coffee! Everyone does it!
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> I had a bad session with my tutor. I seriously think he laughs behind my back now.
>and if he does? I doubt he does, most people are fairly intune to when a person is being themselves or if they are affected by stress. Im sure he figured you were either tired, or under pressure
> I'm really stupid. My thinking comes in bits and pieces, it never really forms into one cohesive clear picture.you are't stupid
> I'm too stupid for university.
the fact that you got into university is a sign you arent too stupid for university. Its not that you are too stupid, it might be that you are still working out how to manage the pressure of university though. A lot of people struggle with managing pressure and a lot of people don't do it well!
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> I just want to crawl into a hole.why? you did something incredibly brave today, you can tell all your other potential coffee dates that you are busy with school and will get back to them later. when something makes you anxious, it takes time to adjust to it without being anxious, don't give up, but put less importance on those people, no one is perfect
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