Posted by James K on January 3, 2006, at 15:59:54
In reply to emotional fidelity to bf..., posted by alesta on January 3, 2006, at 12:20:20
I in no way want to offend you by posting, so if you decide for sure you just want to contribute to females, I will understand and respect that. I felt like that wasn't a definite decision yet so I'm taking a chance.
I just wanted to share that I've been with my wife for 12 years. In that time I've never been unfaithful in deed or spirit. When I used to go out to the rock clubs and she stayed home, some of my female friends started to develop an attraction (maybe me too) and I had to gently ease back. At work I often get flirty or "saucy" with my close female friends, (alway aware of boundaries in the work place), just for fun and humor. I believe it's harmless.
I also struggle with suicidal thoughts and depressions and I don't mind who I share with if we can inform or uplift each other.
The short time I've been here I haven't seen anything out of line from anyone, but only you can decide for yourself.
I hope my input makes sense,
James K
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