Posted by fairywings on November 7, 2005, at 12:53:22
In reply to oh mah god things are challenging (to put nicely), posted by alesta on November 7, 2005, at 9:25:43
boy that's a hard one alesta! if you didn't live in the same bldg. with him it might be easier. when's your lease up, and will you be moving? if he's abusive you need to take care of yourself and get out, doesn't matter what anyone else thinks or says. maybe just be busy doing other things until he gets tired of calling you, and maybe don't answer his nasty emails. sounds like a horrible situation.
as far as other ppl go, it's hard to know until you've really been with someone, how they're going to treat you, but when the chips are down for you, then you see who your real friends are. the heck with the rest. and if you don't like that one girl, lose her, she's just excess baggage. stop calling, stop going out, don't answer the door when she stops by, and tell her you have other plans when she wants to do something. if she's the one who you boosted, and she puts you down, who needs that?
good luck!
fairywings
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