Posted by moime on October 8, 2004, at 18:52:00
AS some of you might notice, I just joined Dr. Bob, mostly because my family lives far away and I don't want to upset them, and so far, this is really helping! Anyway, if you have read my 10/8 postings, you will find that I have been in a really bad relationship, which I just broke off after finding out he was seeing (screwing) another woman. All after promises he would tell me if he decided to be interested in another. ANYWAY, my ex-husband, who still has feelings for me, came to my home today after finding out from my older children that I was completely devastated. He wants to continue the relationship we had been rebuilding before I met this other man. I really threw him over for this bad relationship. He is in a vastly unhappy marriage and will not leave it until the time is right, which he has said in the past will be in about a year (and no promises or allusions were made to me). All his marriage probls did all take place without my influence I might add. Only after he decided to leave his wife and contacted me did I see him several times. Anyway, I really needed someone to talk to , and he just drove up to my house and put his arms around me. He listened to all the horrible things this bad relationship had done to me, and what this particular man had done, to include the great but unintimate sex we had, took it with a grain of salt and was very comforting. Told me he still loved me. I know I am vulnerable, and THAT put me in tears too. Need some help here....
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thread:400569
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