Posted by tampagirl70 on June 16, 2004, at 11:57:53
In reply to Re: PLEASE READ: i need help and to know i'm not a, posted by TexasChic on June 16, 2004, at 10:56:23
hi there - my anxiety is being caused by my marriage. i'm not sure how i feel about it, i'm questioning everything about it and i've been through this exact scenario 6 years ago. i wasn't sure if i loved my husband and right now i'm not sure either. i know every marriage has issues and ours isn't perfect, but because these same thoughts have come up again, and very strongly, i can't help but wonder if its a sign that something is definitely wrong, that the marriage is over. i've never been on my own and i'm worried that i couldn't make it on my own. i know this is a fear and i could probably do it, but i'm worried that if i say ok, the marriage is over, i'll look back at some point and realize i made a huge mistake, and then he'll be gone. my sister made a good point - there are other guys out there. sometimes i wonder if he's the cause of a lot of my problems. we've gone to counseling before and it helped, but i don't think he'd do it again. he's already told me that he can solve my dilemma very quickly by making the decision for both of us. at times i wish he WOULD make the decision, that way i wouldn't have to. i'm so confused right now. :(
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