Posted by karen_kay on April 10, 2004, at 17:43:01
In reply to reassurance yes!, posted by Jai Narayan on April 10, 2004, at 15:52:42
i agree, he just doesn't see it. he doesn't see what i do. he's completely oblivious to it. i don't understand how, but he is.
perhaps i don't treat him the way i treat others. or maybe he's just use to it. you know, i leave him love letters. and i used to send him post cards from my home town when he moved from there, just to remind him of the place. and dozens and dozens of other things, small things but just the same. i don't treat him any different, he's just use to it. it's a shame. perhaps i could remind him, but isn't that just trying to persuade him that "hey, i'm great, look, i do this and that"??? i don't want to come across that way. he has to realize it himself, doesn't he. i think he just doesn't appreciate me any longer. too bad for him. i have it in me, he just forgets. and i'll go out of my way to show him. but, if he doesn't appreciate it, it's out the door for the old man! i'll not have that :)
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