Posted by Karen_kay on December 10, 2003, at 12:29:43
In reply to Karen , thanks, posted by Jai Narayan on December 9, 2003, at 14:01:53
Jai,
You are welcome. I realize as I post on here, that I too become vulnerable. Even rereading before posting doesn't always catch it either! I notice a lot after I read old posts just how vulnerable I allow myself to become. But, what can you do? I do notice that Larry isn't always appreciative of affectiate terms. I, on the other hand am. So, if you feel the need to use them, don't waste them on him, use plenty of them on me!!! Maybe that is just the realiionship that he prefers to have with people on this board. Whereas some people prefer to use affectionate terms, others do not.
I really hope that I do not start a big mess here. What I'm trying to do is focus on the ways that different people communicate. I, on one hand use terms like hun and darling without a second thought. Others may avoid terms like that.
There, I was being honest with you honey. But, don't take too much of what everyone says to heart. I do think that everyone on this board is here with a purpose, and that is for support. And, I am here to support you as well. But, don't forget to support yourself. Feel free to defend yourself if it is warranted. And I will do the same for you too! :)
Karen
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