Posted by Jai Narayan on December 9, 2003, at 6:14:55
In reply to Re: This is a Rant about the Family » Susan J, posted by Larry Hoover on December 8, 2003, at 9:43:09
> Sooz, everybody in a dysfunctional family gets a role...like in a play. The role takes the place of the person inside....that's the simplest way I can say it.
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I think that is so elegantly said. what great insite. I too will look for that book. You are a good counselor...
> The single most helpful book I ever read in my whole life was by John Bradshaw..."Bradshaw On: The Family"
> Me, I'm the scapegoat. It was always my fault, even when it wasn't my fault....it was just my role. It's hard to figure out, but it is figure-outable.
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Did this book and the knowledge liberate you from this role? I enjoy the original ideas and links you come up with.
thanks
Jai Narayan
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