Posted by gabbix2 on September 1, 2003, at 21:08:33
In reply to Re: Physically threatened..SCARED..HELP! » Arrianna, posted by Phil on September 1, 2003, at 20:36:09
Phil's telling it like it is, Arianna.
The problem with abusers is that they're never all bad.
If they were all bad, we wouldn't fall for them. Unfortunately they can be very intelligent, charming and good company, and then ruin your life.Its only on t.v where they have one dimensional personalities.
I've rationalized way too many, comments like what your date said.
One guy wund up killing my dog, and what he did to me I won't get into. He also claimed his ex was responsible for the domestic abuse.There were more, and every single one was a mistake.
Take Phils advice please. I swear there are no exceptions where a comment like your dates would be acceptable, or not be sign of worse things to come if you see him again. You aren't over reacting.
My life HAS been ruined by this, you don't get extra time at the end to make up for it.Take care of yourself first.
G.
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