Posted by Alara on March 30, 2003, at 1:40:15
In reply to Re: Can I rent a mother?, posted by coral on March 28, 2003, at 14:26:58
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Dear Coral,I'm so sorry that you have to watch your mother endure this cruel disease. The sense of loss that you feel must feel overpowering at times. It is so difficult to watch somebody trapped `alive' in their body, unable to communicate or function. You seem like a very strong person to me - but just remember that it's OK to reach out if you need to and grieve.
My grandfather suffered from Alzheimer's Disease and it was very, very hard for everyone around him. Although we focus these days on memories of his healthier days, we will never forget the pain. Please reach out here if you need to.
In the end, good memories of the mother that you love will prevail. Your mother-daughter bond will survive this experience. But meanwhile, please take care of yourself and don't neglect your own emotional needs.
You have my best wishes.
Alara
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