Posted by Shar on April 6, 2002, at 0:28:48
In reply to dark pit that is relapse, posted by ELA on April 5, 2002, at 3:39:04
Hearty congratulations on your 90 days. I've heard it called '90 days and a thousand nights.' It can be a tough period. Actually, being sober can be a tough period.
I'm coming up on 14 years in June. One thing I know is that my urges to drink never have to be related to something in particular. Who knows, it could be something someone said a week ago and wormed its way into my subconscious, and ta-daaaa!
Or, it could just be genetics or the influence of the moon and pluto. (The dog, not the planet.)I like those sayings the old-timers say at meetings sometimes, like, I'm one drink away from a drunk. It never hurts to be aware that thru life, for whatever reasons, those cravings can hit, and be so strong! Best of luck to you, and congrats again--the first year will put ya through some changes, you have a lot of courage.
Shar
> All I can think about right now is drinking again. Don't know where it's come from or why but it's grabbing hold of my mind more and more at the moment.
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> Tonight I am going to a meeting where I will get my 90 days clean time key ring. Good achievement huh? I am very proud of myself because of this but drink is all that I can see in my head, especially the demon VODKA.
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> If someone knows how to make non-alcoholic vodka please let me know cos I love the stuff!
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> I keep dreaming about going out and getting pissed and just walking around by myself and getting pissed. It's all a bit odd as I'm feeling pretty happy and ok generally, the alcohol is just in the back of my mind, though.
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> I will share this at the meeting tonight but it doesn't always work for me to do that. I can't think of any reason why I would relapse just now but it's a bit of a worry all the same. Relapse to me would be a disaster as the last time I was there I hit rock bottom and the suicide thing happened, as did my cutting again. Don't want to go there again.
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> Emma.
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