Posted by KB on February 18, 2002, at 13:42:38
Someone I have been intimately involved with for 6 months chose valentines' day to reveal to me that not only had they been a heavy drinker, but also used cocaine. We went to high school and dated when we were 13 (13 years ago) and I knew about the drinking then, as well as LSD, but when we re-encountered each other again this past June I was told that those behaviors were over.
Now it turns out that that was part of a 75-day sober period, followed by a relapse (that I had no idea about even though we were involved by that point) and now 4 months of sobriety.
I've never had anyone in my life who used cocaine, though I've had clients who did, and it makes me really nervous to see this vulnerable side of someone I have come to depend heavily on.
Any thoughts?
poster:KB
thread:18450
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