Posted by Kristi on January 2, 2002, at 14:58:38
In reply to Re: Had a fun date but I'm feeling Neurotic! » Roo, posted by wendy b. on January 2, 2002, at 14:38:27
I agree with Wendy's first paragraph and have just been too busy to write. Maybe he's feeling you out????? Maybe something is wrong with him, and he's wondering how you'll take it?
Or..... maybe he had some bad past experience with someone who was?
Just a few thoughts. Take it slow..... that's the fun part anyway!
> > Thanks Greg--for the perspective. It really helps
> > to have a guy's perspective. He keeps asking me
> > out so he must like me. Plus, from what I gather
> > he's pretty neurotic too. Probably a better word
> > is complex.
>
> ... and then you'll find out he's been in major psychotherapy and is on a complex psychopharmaceutical cocktail... or something like that!
>
> My advice, for what it's worth (not a hell of a lot!), is to hang tight, like the others have said. It's not that you're keeping something from him, but you have to feel comfortable, and you have to be able to trust. You don't know if you can trust a person after just a few dates.
>
> As for being neurotic, another word for that is 'introspective,' right? Just try and take it easy, keep things 'lite' for a while. And enjoy yourself whenever possible!
>
> best,
> Wendy
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