Posted by sar on August 23, 2001, at 17:44:45
In reply to Re: the image of a nun getting... (?), posted by Wendy B. on August 22, 2001, at 9:50:50
dear wendy,
what do you do for a living? do write for harlequin? sillohuette? :)
that's what i'm afraid of--sores i can't afford. he does seem to care about me alot--all of this driving, the little kisses, e-mail from abroad all summer--but we did jump in the sack too early. i once wrote a treatise called "On Sluts and Fucking" or somesuch trying to reconcile feminism with evolution. my conclusion was that the girl really does have to hold out in order for things to work (usually) and i think that's damn unfortunate...but as the Chinese say, in order to conquer nature, you must obey it.
we worked and partied together for about a year before any of this happened...not as close friends, but we were definitely flirty and always had fun together...
i saw him 2 days ago. he played some funny jazz song for me that said "i want her to be my baby but i don't know how she feels about me" or somethin--"this is my song for you," he said casually, and then after it i didn't say anything but took hold of his hand--we were driving--great time we had--
i'm just afraid of sores i can't afford.
but that means not living.
i get confused too easily.
how are you, wendy? what happened with the last guy?
hope you are well--
love
sar
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