Posted by JennyR on July 20, 2001, at 20:06:03
In reply to Re: Love only in fairy tales? » Patches, posted by Marie1 on July 19, 2001, at 8:22:29
I'm married 16 years, fell out of love long ago. Couples therapy helped us a lot, though we've been out for a year and have backslided, and there's still one issue that's unresolved.
But I do think couples therapy might be the way to go if he's willing. You'll both get to air your stuff. And putting it out there in front of someone else really does help you both gain some objectivity.
It probably shouldn't be with your own therapist though, because he might feel she's already on your side.
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