Posted by Tabitha on May 1, 2014, at 17:25:40
In reply to Re: Post therapy observations, posted by alexandra_k on May 1, 2014, at 3:39:41
> yes. i do wonder about this. sometimes i think i do benefit from a relatively objective other. but i think that those times aren't usually all that frequent... mostly... it is some kind of venting thing that i do... and i'm not sure how much it helps me vs gets me in a ruminatory mood.
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>Right. I felt the "learning from an objective other" phase only lasted a few years. Reminds me of taking music lessons. They teach you the basics but eventually the teacher doesn't really know what to do with you. They can probably see what's not working and don't know how to get you working better.
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