Posted by rskontos on February 13, 2009, at 22:07:29
In reply to Re: Apparently I am hard to get.. (triggery + long » rskontos, posted by raisinb on February 13, 2009, at 20:27:51
> RSK,
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> Please don't be so hard on yourself. Every job (in my experience, which admittedly is confined to schools and colleges) has someone like your coworker--who's terribly sensitive and often imagines people are snubbing him/her or makes grievances out of oversights. You didn't list any specific things you'd done or intended to do to this coworker--and from reading your posts on this board, I don't think you're the type of person who wants to hurt anyone.Thanks raisinb, I don't. My boss told me I was trying to hard and of course this I think is part of why I was just too talkative I guess for here. But then again, most people who talk are too talkative for her. She is either in a bad mood and wants no one to talk, or the talk must be you listening to her. sigh. oh well that is her. I just never thought she would take it to the supervisor in her discussions of her "not feeling feel" and then to she and I not "hitting it off". But that is her way I guess, not mine.
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> Regardless, you aren't responsible for this upset all by yourself. There are two people in every conflict.Yes, I just take things harder lately. Poor filtering I guess.
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> Listen, do you know how many people I've p**ed off at work? I bet I have more people who hate me than you do! :)Not you raisinb, I can't imagine that. I am serious.
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> Take care of yourself and don't worry about the xanax right now. Just because you need it right now doesn't make you a druggie. We all need drugs sometimes. That's why they make them.Yes I am just going to take the xanax. My p-doc says I need to take it and it is ok. In the year + he has been prescribing it, he says I am definitely not over doing it at all. I can afford to increase my use.
thanks so much
rsk
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