Posted by raisinb on February 13, 2009, at 20:27:51
In reply to Apparently I am hard to get.. (triggery + long), posted by rskontos on February 12, 2009, at 16:25:45
RSK,
Please don't be so hard on yourself. Every job (in my experience, which admittedly is confined to schools and colleges) has someone like your coworker--who's terribly sensitive and often imagines people are snubbing him/her or makes grievances out of oversights. You didn't list any specific things you'd done or intended to do to this coworker--and from reading your posts on this board, I don't think you're the type of person who wants to hurt anyone.
Regardless, you aren't responsible for this upset all by yourself. There are two people in every conflict.
Listen, do you know how many people I've p**ed off at work? I bet I have more people who hate me than you do! :)
Take care of yourself and don't worry about the xanax right now. Just because you need it right now doesn't make you a druggie. We all need drugs sometimes. That's why they make them.
(((rsk)))
poster:raisinb
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