Posted by Dinah on November 22, 2008, at 23:37:15
In reply to Re: The L word with T? » Dinah, posted by obsidian on November 22, 2008, at 23:26:52
No... It really isn't.
I thought it was. But when I quit fighting it and leaned into it, I found it was pretty wonderful.
I think if I had to choose between never loving again or never being loved again, I'd definitely put the priority on loving. There is such a sense of peace and lightness to it.
That my therapist has grown to care for me as well is nice. But loving without cursing the attachment was much much better.
(Not that I don't still curse the attachment at times.)
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