Posted by Daisym on July 14, 2008, at 23:21:00
In reply to Re: I got a letter from my T! ;-( » Dinah, posted by LadyBug on July 14, 2008, at 22:15:02
Sometimes getting more pieces to the puzzle helps with the understanding but not really the hurt. But I agree with Dinah about the bad times not negating the good ones. And I like what she said about thinking about this as an oncoming death - what would you like to say and hold on to?
The therapy relationship is such a complicated one. All those feelings are real, and they survive over weeks and months and days...but they can't survive outside in the real world. I guess this is that internalizing your therapist piece, so we can hold onto their caring, out here, in the real world.
Whatever you decide to do, I know it will be painful. I wish life wasn't so hard - it is your turn for good things.
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