Posted by Kath on April 23, 2007, at 18:05:58
In reply to Re: Question re:sex and honesty, posted by muffled on April 23, 2007, at 14:44:56
Dear Muffled,
You sound like such a loving, caring person. I'm sorry that it's like this for you.
Is your situation such that you could afford to see a therapist or counsellor to discuss this? The reason I ask this, is that I think communication is really important & I think it would be wonderful if you could actually talk with your guy about this.
Maybe that feels just TOO scarey! I don't know if he knows your history of what happened to make sex so unpleasant.
Do you think that you'd ever feel safe talking with him about it? Is your relationship good?
I think that the very best sex (in marriage or out) is one where both people truly care about each other - about each other physically and emotionally.
It's good you're able to talk about this here at least.
luv, Kath
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