Posted by one woman cine on January 16, 2007, at 10:50:44
In reply to how do i let go, posted by shrinking violet on January 15, 2007, at 18:53:59
I had a rough time with a former T who had no boundaries and had abused her postion. I understand what you are going through. Having said that - I was told (although I wanted validation from her that she had "done me wrong") that to cotact her would just be seen by her (and others) as an act of perseveration - meaning although the relationship was long over - I would be seen in a psychopathological way of not being able to let go. It was tough but I never did contact her again.
& it's true, time does heal all wounds - or at least lessens it. I hope you are able to process this, without any further pain.
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