Re: Guilt, boundaries, and compassion... (longish)

Posted by LadyBug on March 16, 2006, at 14:33:50

In reply to Re: Guilt, boundaries, and compassion... (longish), posted by gardenergirl on March 16, 2006, at 13:01:57

I'm going through a simular situation with a good friend of mine. Only with her, it's all about "her", which is mememememememememe!!!!!!! I get sick of it. I have struggles too, but she does't give a crap really. She pretends to care but I know she only cares about herself. I agree that having boudaires is a way to save yourself from the being so consummed. I get selfish too, and won't answer my phone when she calls. She calls only when it's convient for "her" to talk. If it's not convient for me, leave a voice mail and when I get time and I'm in the mood to listen to you. It can be draining can't it???? I pay my therapist to help me, why doesn't she get one to help herself?
Good Luck with it. Own your own power.
LadyBug

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Guilt, boundaries, and compassion... (longish) Racer 3/16/06
Re: Guilt, boundaries, and compassion... (longish) » Racer fallsfall 3/16/06
Re: Guilt, boundaries, and compassion... (longish) gardenergirl 3/16/06
Re: Guilt, boundaries, and compassion... (longish) LadyBug 3/16/06
Re: Guilt, boundaries, and compassion... (longish) » Racer fairywings 3/17/06
Another chapter, not entirely sure what to do Racer 3/17/06
Re: Another chapter, not entirely sure what to do » Racer Dinah 3/17/06
Re: Another chapter, not entirely sure what to do » Racer fairywings 3/17/06
Re: Another chapter, not entirely sure what to do » Racer fallsfall 3/17/06

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