Posted by Voce on December 11, 2005, at 1:16:39
In reply to Re: Will my words diminish dreams ,spirits of another? » Voce, posted by allisonross on December 10, 2005, at 12:15:07
<He said that "when kids come in about abuse issues, but don't talk about it, they are STILL talking about it.">
Yup, that's a very true statement. When I went to therapy, even if I wasn't talking *about* something, it still showed in my tone of voice, eye contact (or lack therof) and posture.
<I appreciate the thought/concern that I may be...being hurt. To tell the truth, that has happened, but it is much too intricate and detailed to go into now.>
I echo what someone said about wanting to get to know you better. We know the facts about the divorce, but how are you doing now? And just because you love your T doesn't mean he's perfect, and we all understand that. I have come to this board and shared all the ugly stuff about my relationship with my T, as well as the good stuff. And I still love him. If you want to share stuff about your T that has hurt you, I would encourage you to do so. There are some amazing people on this board who can offer well thought-out persepectives. It always helps me so much to bounce things off other posters.
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