Posted by allisonross on December 10, 2005, at 12:15:07
In reply to Re: Will my words diminish dreams ,spirits of another? » allisonross, posted by Voce on December 10, 2005, at 11:26:33
Hi, ((Voce): Thank you for your well-thought out response. I do feel better.
I guess I thought my "context" stuff (I always think others are thinking what I am, duhhhh) was that "they" knew of my feelings/love for my t. We had discussed it a lot, and that the comment "would you go for it, etc." was self-explanatory...point well-taken!
My t and I joke and tease a lot. As I told him, I am processing the divorce thing all week, and when I come in, I just don't want to talk about it (weird, but that's how I feel)
He said something so fascinating. He said that "when kids come in about abuse issues, but don't talk about it, they are STILL talking about it." I understand that.
That's what I am doing now. I always feel wonderful when I leave my t. In other words, I am doing what I need to do to heal and grieve.
I appreciate the thought/concern that I may be...being hurt. To tell the truth, that has happened, but it is much too intricate and detailed to go into now.
Thank you for your lovely words of kindness and thoughtfulness. They are much appreciated.
Smiling always, Ally
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