Posted by happyflower on November 27, 2005, at 21:27:13
In reply to Re: you are going to follow your transference » happyflower, posted by alexandra_k on November 27, 2005, at 15:15:12
> > > And how much does that 12 years mean to you,
> How much are you thinking of your husband and your children when you are prepared to throw that all away just like that?First of all, I am not the one who has ruined my marriage, it was my DH. I can't make somebody want and love me if they don't want to. He is the one who has "left" emotionally and sexually from the marriage.
> > I didn't enter therapy because I was totally screwed up person, I have lived a very normal adult life.
>
> So why were you in therapy again?I was in therapy (for the first and only time) because I was suffering from PTSD because of my mother. She threaten to abduct my kids. She was a very sick person. I was abused so badly from her, it freaked me out, when she started to send unmarked packages to my house to my kids. The whole story is in the archives. I was in therapy because of my past. I was doing fine in the present, until my mother starting to make death threats and stuff like that. That freaked me out, and I think it wouldl freak anyone out. Anyone can suffer from PTSD at any time in there life.
You haven't told me anything I haven't read myself or heard. I feel you are being hard on me, it seems like you are talking down to me or something. I think you are getting way too carried away. You are treating me like I am totally stupid or something, like I never even heard of transference.
I think I "got" you view of things. Some things I agree with you , but you a little uninformed about some of the details in my current situation.
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