Posted by daisym on November 21, 2005, at 14:02:02
In reply to Details (very long), posted by 10derHeart on November 19, 2005, at 19:10:24
Don't worry about too long, I like long!
I can see why you are upset, the whole thing sounds confused and painful. It seems clear that he is trying to do what he thinks is best and acknowledging that he is causing you pain. You have good reason to be upset with him and it sounds like you aren't holding back with that either.
I think you were very brave to ask for a handshake. That feels a little like you both forming a bridge to reach each other over this divide. I have faith you can work this through. Don't disappear, keep posting for support. We have plenty to give here.
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