Posted by happyflower on May 27, 2005, at 17:53:13
In reply to Re: it might sound quite bitter, but that helps you. » happyflower, posted by pinkeye on May 27, 2005, at 17:35:12
My T told me something interesting this week about marriages. He said they all end up in a bad way. 50% of marriage end up in divorse = bad. 25% stay married but are truely miserable= bad, and the other 25% one person dies before the other= bad. So if you really think about all relationship end up bad. But why people invest in relationships? Because it has a chance of giving us joy. You know I have read a story on the net about what a T feels when they have to say goodbye to us. From what he said, there emotions are somewhat the same. It is bittersweet for them too. But they can't tell us that because we wouldn't truely heal ourselves and live on our own. That's why eventually kids leave the nest, not because they don't care, but because they have to lead there own lives. Boy am I sappy today. What has my T done to me, all these feelings, yikes, sappy,yikes. I was too hard a@@ in the past to be sappy, now look at me! AUUUGGGHHH! I don't know if this is good thing!
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