Re: physical holding

Posted by LadyBug on April 22, 2005, at 14:18:56

In reply to Re: physical holding, posted by morning*bell on April 22, 2005, at 11:27:41

I've had 3 hugs in 8 years. they are off limits and the first hug was because it was right before mothers day and we had a good session. I think I caught her off guard. I love my T's explaination of why not hug. She says we need to *talk* about what's behind the hug and what it means to want one. It has worked well for me. Sometimes I wish we could hug, but then I really do like talking about it more. I believe it is wrong even though some believe it is ok. That's just my opinion. I'd be afraid of the rejection and the end of the holding. That would hurt!!
LadyBug

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