Posted by annierose on April 22, 2005, at 7:37:41
In reply to Re: physical holding » crazymaisie, posted by Tamar on April 22, 2005, at 5:15:00
I have very firm personal boundaries, so that touching would send me in a panic. I would run so fast from that office, so for me, it sounds inappropriate. I do not think a T should engage in ongoing physical contact, and of course it is going to be confusing.
But my perspective is just that. One persons opinion. My T is pyschodynamic, so I feel safe knowing she would never touch me.
Now if your T gave you an occasional hug or hand shake (something like that) after a particularly difficult session, that would seem more reasonable to me. I can understand that and that contact would seem appropriate. Stroking of your hair crosses the boundaries for me.
Sorry if I am coming across as harsh. It is not my intent. If you felt comfortable, that would be one thing. But I sense your inner gut is telling you that something is amiss.
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