Posted by pinkeye on April 18, 2005, at 18:40:46
In reply to Re: Anybody afraid of growing up? Trigger » pinkeye, posted by Dinah on April 18, 2005, at 18:24:16
What you have said is so true. I think men just do it because they have more physical power. And if they want, they can stop.
My husband started losing control, but then I told him, if he ever laid his hand on me one more time, I am going to make sure he pays for it.. And also that I would walk away from him forever and then he suddenly regained control. So if he wants, he can control.
But regarding the deserving, I feel like I deserve only such a man in my life. I liked people who are better, but then they never liked me back. Like my ex T. I am sure he would never hit anyone, but such a person never likes me also. That is why I compromise with my husband all the time.
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