Posted by pinkeye on April 12, 2005, at 13:37:55
In reply to I'm regressing :-(, posted by messadivoce on April 12, 2005, at 0:28:18
Another thing that helps is perhaps to realize that these feelings that you have are not really towards him. It is a feeling towards our fathers (not sure if it is so in your case), but that is what my current T keeps telling me - that I keep projecting everything about my father onto other men that I meet.
If you are feeling abandoned and somehow want your T to apologize for the mistakes he made with you, maybe it is really about your dad and not about your T?
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