Posted by mair on April 9, 2005, at 18:51:04
In reply to .......... *t* (and SI *t* ), posted by shrinking violet on April 9, 2005, at 18:38:47
Who are you trying to punish? You or your T? You need to accept that you're worth taking care of and she may not be. You both may have had a hand in what's happened but it sounds to me that her capacity to help you work though it was just limited. It doesn't make her a hurtful person and you certainly are not a hurtful person. The 2 of you unfortunately came into a situation that she lost control of. She is the professional.
You're such a wonderful writer and find it a better way to communicate. Try to get as much of this down as you can; not necessarily to send to her but for yourself.
And please keep posting.
mair
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