Posted by thewrite1 on October 14, 2004, at 20:00:38
In reply to Direct Questions, posted by rubenstein on October 8, 2004, at 9:57:10
It's interesting that the title of this thread would come up. I went into my last session kind of angry. The time before I had gotten into some pretty heavy stuff and *at the end* of that session, my T informed me she wouldn't be able to meet with me the next week because of a jewish holiday. I asked her about it and she said it was basically about forgivness. Two weeks passed before I saw her again and the first thing I asked was, "How was your holiday? Did you forgive anyone?"
Granted, I would have never said that if I wasn't so angry with her. She was taken aback, maybe for the first time since I've been seeing her. She said that she did, and I asked her what the look on her face was about. "I'm just wondering about your direct question."
I said, "I find it interesting that you would say it's a direct question rather than just a question."
She said, "I find it interesting that you find it interesting that I said it was a direct question."
I just rolled my eyes at her. I hate how T's always bring everything back to you. We did get around to discussing why I was angry with her, but I thought it was an odd exchange.
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