Posted by Daisym on October 8, 2004, at 10:25:23
In reply to Re: Direct Questions, posted by wheeler on October 8, 2004, at 10:08:46
I ask these kinds of questions all the time! (and feel completely ridiculous, btw. I'm a grown woman and I feel like an adolescent: "do you like me?")
Yesterday, after a very hard session, I called a couple of hours later and said, "this is the panic after call asking if you are OK with what came out. I need to know if you are upset with me." He called back, and we talked for only 2 or 3 minutes but he let me know that he was glad I was able to tell him stuff and he was totally OK with it.
You are not alone in these feelings, so go ahead and ask. But be prepared for the "what are you imagining I'll say?" or "Have I made you feel in some way like I don't?" questions.
Good luck!
poster:Daisym
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