Posted by starlight on May 11, 2004, at 14:58:31
In reply to How long is too long?, posted by tterees on May 11, 2004, at 0:19:59
From the way you're talking, you sound like you already know what you need to do. Talk to him about it and see what he says. Forget about having a 10 year relationship with him, which you might be substituting him for a father archetype but he's not your father, and in this situation, what you need is someone that will guide you to heal yourself. The problem with being with someone so long is that it's easy to get into a rut. You have to honor your SELF first! And it sounds like your SELF is talking to you. Listen. It won't hurt to see someone else on a trial basis. Get some recommendations. Change is good!
starlight
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