Posted by Joslynn on January 14, 2004, at 16:48:29
In reply to Re: Ok Ladies, Listen UP!!!! » Karen_kay, posted by crushedout on January 14, 2004, at 16:31:00
I thought you said that he told you "Yes, I do fantasize about my clients sometimes when I masturbate."
So, to me, I would read that as, he is fantasizing about sleeping with them as he does that. I mean, isn't that, er, what people usually think of when they say that they fantasize to masturbate?
And I know he didn't say you specifically, but he said clients in general, and you are a client. Then later on, he referred to you as beautiful.
So, if I were you, I would just naturally assume that I was one of the clients in the fantasies? I mean, since he's a guy, he would probably fantasize about the young beautiful clients like you, not the pudgy middle-aged guy, right? (No offense to middle aged guys.)
Also, that's ok if you are crass as you say. That is completely fine. But as a professional, should he be crass as well? Should he always match your tone? That is what I wonder...
But don't believe us...do a search or maybe there are some books out about it?
Anyway, I'm sorry if I have upset you, so I won't say anything else. Just food for thought.
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