Posted by crushedout on January 14, 2004, at 16:01:49
In reply to Re: Ok Ladies, Listen UP!!!!, posted by Joslynn on January 14, 2004, at 15:53:16
Karen, I kind of have to agree with Joslyn, although if I were you, I'd be tickled pink by his boundary-crossing (as I am whenever my T gets fuzzy boundaries also -- doesn't mean it's a good idea for them to do it). Especially when you look at what he divulged to you about his masturbation fantasies, the fact that he basically said he would want to sleep with you under other circumstances, and then said not only should you feel free to call him, but that he *wants* you to call him. It sounds really over the line, actually.> Karen, I hope you don't mind my saying this, but I think your therapist didn't answer your question in a professional way. Yes, you asked, and there's nothing wrong with that, but I think his answer was out of line. I don't think I would want a therp or pdoc to admit to me that he masturbates about patients.
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> If you want, search for "boundary violations" or "boundary crossings" plus maybe the words "fantasies," "dreams" or "self-disclosure" in google or your favorite search engine...? To see if he is getting a bit slippery in his boundaries?
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> I just couldn't bit my tongue on this one. You are insightful, funny and brave, but sometimes your therapist worries me, sorry.
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